The War Is On

As women today I think it can be hard because it seems like there are so many views of an idea woman! And I think it can be challenging.  So, often I tend to hide behind my eyes instead of Christ eyes!  I tend to dance more in bondage instead of freedom but this isn't what I want or desire. Can any of your relate ? For me my bondage is being enough or knowing I am  exactly who Christ designed me to be !  And because of this chain I tend to sway in it comparing or feeling  that I am the black sheep.  I mean I am fixing to turn 25 and that my friends already feels awkward.

 And while I know in my life there are blessings. I also know that I  struggle with  trusting God's perfect plan! I get so caught up in my plans  or thinking I am way off scale because I notice the things people are doing my age. And it makes me wonder do I keep my desires  of a family one day,will I ever be settled or maybe I should just be present and surrender taking each season as it comes ?  

However you want to look at it I say this  to be real and maybe even encourage others who have this same struggle that it is soo hard!  We are constantly bombarded with we should be but  the real truth is we need God's affirmation!

We need to take hold of whose we are!

And I am saying all this because I am in the fight with you all. To be quiet honest on this note as I speak I want to say  that I think from this whole collection of thoughts as well as conversations I've had down the road that  maybe the reality is  there are always going to be things we desire or places we should be  but  the reality is  that  we just need to accept where we are knowing God is good!

 I am not saying we all feel this way or  any one will agree with me but I  just know  am sick of this battle and maybe you are too ! So, that is why I also write. I want to see others as well as myself step up to the plate owning who they are!  And if I could sit with each one of you I would tell you ladies we can't take this  hit like it's nothing ! We were given the sword and God wants us to wield it !

We hold this sword everyday and this my friends is His word ! So , maybe today you need to hold up the sword and say to Satan, I am His child!

I don't know  but I just want to  say Ladies, " The War is On!, Will you fight?"   At the same time I want to close challenging us all to claim Psalm 139 because we are FEARFULLY AND WONDERFULLY MADE" So, ladies will you join me ?